I’ve been really rethinking the whole “who is my neighbor” thing. A lot of this is due to some very good stuff I’ve been reading in NT Wright’s book, “Jesus and the Victory of God“. Not an easy read at all! But great stuff.
Anyway, As I have been trying to figure out how to make as many touches on people around me as I can, one just dropped into my lap in the most unlikely of places.
I got a phone call from a man who asked if I would be willing to perform his wedding. What is very unusual is this person does not live in my community, work in my community or recreate in my community. He lives over 50 miles from our church and works over 30 miles away.
We decide to meet at Applebees in Brighton, an almost halfway point for each of us. As I’m sitting with this couple I realize how far God will go for one of his children. We sat for 2 hours and in that time I listened as this man poured out his story. Bottom line, he turned his back on his church roots, his walk with the Lord, his family, I think even his true self.
He meets a woman who has been in a church twice in her life, a wedding and a funeral. They fall in love and want to get married. For him…marriage needs a pastor. I guess this is where I step in.
He gets my name from the pastor who married his buddy, who has a conflict on the same day as their desired wedding day.
Anyway, in the middle of Applebees we are talking about God, Jesus, guilt, repentance, relationship, religion, forgiveness, and finally marriage. After an intense one hour of conversation, I look around and realize none of us cared where we were, what the waiter heard or the table next to us…it was if we were the only ones in the place. I want to do this all the time!!!
This woman who has been in church twice in her life looks at me and says, “I want to come and visit your church.” “I want to come and see what church looks like. ” “If I am going to have a pastor marry us, I would like to see what a pastor does.” I especially liked that one!
I tell them that our church is an hour away from where they live. This wasn’t even an issue for them at all. They had checked out our website before calling me and she said, “If I go to a church this is a church I want to go to.”
So….how big is the community that God wants us to reach out to? Well mine just expanded by 35 miles.
I want a church full of these kinds of people. How far will God go? As far as we are willing to take him.